CELIBACY
Celibacy, for those who don’t know, means zero sex. Zero fun in the sheets, only hand holding, staring into each other’s eyes and dropping bae off at their door. In this society we live in where the legal age for sex is 16, my 12 year old cousin looks 25, skirts are shorter than ever and in some cultures some 14 year olds are on baby number two how are we expected to stay celibate?
Oreka Godis dives into this controversial topic with Sade Ladipo outspoken TV Personality and Chizoba Ofeogu Emotional Confidence Coach with differing opinions. On team celibacy rocks, Chizoba (who is celibate) says that Christians should not fall into the trap of adopting the “Assistant Holy Ghost role” just because you are celibate does not make you a pastor or give you access to the book of life. She says to be celibate you should know why because if you have decided to go on strike and your partner is still working you will go from being the main plate to a side dish very quickly. If you want to be celibate find somebody who will grab.
On team no celibacy Sade says celibacy is unrealistic in today’s day and age. She says we should aim for sexual discipline, not just jumping from person to person. The saying is too much of a good thing is bad for you. But if you are celibate is it only in marriage that you get to have sex? So if you don’t marry will you be a virgin till you die? Scary thought right?
To watch the whole episode and weigh in on this controversial topic, Tune in to EbonyLife TV and Urban 96 FM Love Lounge on Mondays at 10pm WAT or Friday by 10:30pm WAT.
What Do Women Want?
Any man that can give an answer to this question that would satisfy just 50% of women deserves a Nobel Peace Prize. That man is one step closer to discovering world peace and it’s really as serious as that.
Women always wonder why men never seem to know what they want but for men, it’s like playing football while the goalposts keep moving. When we come close to answering the question women all over the world seem to retreat to this secret group chat on WhatsApp and agree to disagree with the brotherhood of men.
There was a time when we thought women just wanted a man who cared for them was affectionate and showered them with gifts, any gift would do, we thought. A Shoe was a shoe just let it be fine. These days there are shoes and then there is Louboutin. Make no mistake about it, they are not the same thing.
Sure there are general rules and principles that women claim men must obey and abide by. At least that’s what they claim. Ask any married man, he will tell you it’s a lie. Your girl can tell you her problems, you take the initiative and attempt to solve it and your girl is mad at you. Truth is she never wanted you to solve it. She just wanted you to listen. That’s what you’ll think till the next time you listen and sit on your ass.
For heaven sakes, if Albert Einstein got divorced and couldn’t E=mc2 his way to answer what a woman would want, can women cut us some slack.
If you don’t believe me you can undertake further studies by catching Men’s Corner at 23:00 CAT on EbonyLife TV DStv Channel 165.
JONGO: Eps 8
Showing June 30 | Episode 8
Eli and Kay begin to track down Benjamin Abaddon. As Benjamin’s mental condition deteriorates, we begin to realise how truly dangerous he is. Cornered and left with nowhere to go, Kay needs to place his trust in Eli if they are going to survive.
Jongo: WATERFALL
Showing June 23 | Episode 7 | WATERFALL As circumstances spiral out of control, Eli is forced to reveal his secret to Maya. Kay helps Eli to investigate Abaddon Holdings, but makes a crucial mistake. Now Mr Angel is hunting Kay.
Jongo: PLAN
Showing June 16 | Episode 6 | PLAN Eli continues to keep his secret from Maya and it’s beginning to affect their relationship. Ziv attacks a member of the unit investigating the Abaddons. After returning from a double date with Kay and Lisa, Eli gets a frantic call from the young dance student. He’s in trouble.
Jongo: CLOSER
Showing June 2 | Episode 4 | CLOSERWe meet the psychotic Mr Angel and his accomplice. Kay takes Eli out to their old school to share something personal with him. Benjamin Abaddon agrees to be interviewed by a notoriously tough TV journalist, but who is in control? Meanwhile Eli and Maya head out to Kay’s birthday party. Ziv uses the opportunity to his advantage.
Jongo: HUNT
Showing May 26 | Episode 3 | HUNTEli goes missing for several days. When Kay eventually tracks him down, Eli shares his belief that his father was murdered for reasons other than what the police suspect. We meet Benjamin’s mentally ill sister and ruthless girlfriend and discover that the Abaddon family are being investigated for a string of crimes. Eli shows Kay what his father left for him and what he is now able to do.
Jongo: DISCOVERY
Showing May 19 | Episode 2 | DISCOVERY Eli receives devastating personal news that will change his life forever. Heading out to the crime scene, he makes an incredible discovery. Meanwhile, Benjamin Abaddon experiments with his powers. But does he know what the scarlet crystal is doing to him?
Prince William – “It’s where the stewardship of nature is taken seriously”
May 11, 2016 It’s no wonder it’s on CNN, National Geographic and Conde Nasts’ list for ‘World’s TOP Beach.’ It’s the jewel in the crown of East Africa’s islands and a heavenly holiday haven. Nestled against lush hills, granite boulders and protected reserves lies Seychelles, an eco-lover’s paradise visited by many celebrities, including Prince William and Kate Middleton. Join Miss Seychelles 2014, Camila Estico and Nigerian TV personality Mimi Onalaja as they guide you through Mahé and La Digue’s beaches, Rum tastings, shopping, nightlife and eco highlights, in beautiful Seychelles.
Seychelles- Beaches
Seychelles- Camila Estico Miss Seychelles 2014
Seychelles- cocktails
Seychelles- Coco de mer
Coco de Mer
Seychelles- Creaole Cuisine
Giant tortoises
Seychelles- La Digue
Mimi Onalaja
Seychelles Parties
Parties
Seychelles- Reclaimed Beach Victoria Capital
